14. One of the most annoying things a man can do to a woman is make her wait. No, not minutes, hours. Most women are fashionably late to dates, usually 15 minutes, I on the other hand, am usually right on the dot. Early even. You, however, are chronically late. I take the care to gussy up and to look absolutely pretty for you, so that I can make a breathtaking entrance yet you're not there at our meeting place. On several occasions, you also made me wait around two hours while you played computer games with your male friends. Do you know how frustrating it is for a girl to wait alone? I don't get it, I thought, you say you love me yet you're not taking me seriously and keep forgetting me. We have fought about this many many times in the past, don't you dare deny it and don't you dare say you're so damn innocent. Because you're not. In one Japanese anime that I have watched, a girl was also waiting on a guy. While she was doing so, another guy approached her, "Are you sure he's coming?" And she shook her head. To this he said, "Then why are you staying here?" With tears in her eyes she replied, "To gather my rage." And that was exactly how I felt. There are times wherein I get outwardly angry at you. And there are times wherein I grit my teeth, silent till patience prevails and I forgive and forget. And there are times wherein I get even and I try to make you wait as well, to test your patience. And I am deeply sorry for that. It was an immature reaction. And though now, I time your arrivals now by texting you, so I wait less or let you arrive a bit earlier than me. I have to tell you, don't make me wait longer than I have to. I may not be here the next time, I don't just need you to tell me you love me, I need you to be there at the time you say you'll be there. It's not just a matter of security. It's a matter of respect and about giving your best to the object of your love.
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